This letter is meant to serve as testimony to the endless knowledge imparted by Sensei Anthony.  I wish to introduce myself and state my experience in training only to point out , that after what many would consider the best training, the highest standards of technical training in real life theaters,   I am learning so much more training under Sensei.  His commitment to study and training is unsurpassed in my experience.   This is not a feel good commercial school handing out awards and belts.  Sensei has a wealth of real life experience and a unique way of conveying theories, concepts , and much more needed for today's battle field of "every day life'.  His wealth of knowledge about so much more than just martial arts gives him the uncanny ability to communicate with students on many levels..... to use subjects they are familiar with to pose examples and thought.    Sensei is truly a dinosaur from the ancient times.

He lives the life, walks the walk,   a better friend you cannot find.   

CAUTION:  CAREFUL WHAT YOU ASK FOR IN TRAINING   ~  YOU'LL GET IT   

MAKE SURE YOU KNOW YOUR OBLIGATION TO THE TRAINING, 

BREAKING YOUR WORD IS HOW MOST GET DISMISSED

I am a retired law enforcement officer from out of state, I've spent over 30 years training in martial arts, close quarter protection, active shooter drills, and many other classes /training offered by my agency. I was part of the SWAT team, and before all this a Marine, MARSOC to be specific. Now working on my second career, I was seeking a martial arts school that could offer the training and level of skill sets I am used to. Sadly, I thought such a place did not exist outside of the military or my old agency. I tried a few schools but they are too focused on belt, trophies and other aspects I have no use for. I was surprised to hear the claims of how easily they could take a weapon from someone or disable the attacker with a mere few pounds of pressure. ... not my experience in real life.!
Then i found, by accident, Sensei Anthony, minding his business at the gym with a jug of coffee. I watched his workouts for weeks, extreme to say the least, I saw him conditioning his body, bones, hands, on a steel beam. I had to ask. That's when we started talking and I was accepted to interview, yup, interview, first guy ever that said he refused most prospects. I thought, this guy isn't in it for the money.....  but if not money ,  then why??    I was very interested in finding out more about this guy.  We talked for weeks,  looking back,  I cant' believe that I was the one being interviewed, "interrogated"...  after all ,  that was part of my training, and now I didn't even know it was being done to me.   Sensei wanted to make sure i was who I said i was.  I found that very profound and responsible. Sensei is such an inconspicuous guy as far as knowledge and skill.   He is not large, he's just a regular guy.  He sits with a giant jug of coffee an works out for hrs.  He jokes with a select few, but really keeps to himself.   He is not the picture of what you would consider a martial arts master.  I remember in the Marines,  some of our toughest instructors,  guys who could just take your life in a second,   they were very "regular'.  And that's Sensei,   a "regular" guy on the surface,  brash and in your face,  but underneath, a tender heart, a loyal friend, and probably the most skilled close quarter instructor i've ever seen.   More importantly than his fighting ability,   is his friendship,  you couldn't want for a more committed and loyal friend,   truly and honor to call him "teacher".


long story short, based on my military/LEO training, I always felt I had a lot of tools in my bag, after a few session with Sensei my tool box felt more like a broken wrench and couple rusty screws. This guy is real, he's upfront without concern for politics or your feelings. He's a living example of what he teaches, not a mouth piece that can't perform.
our first classes, I was asked to demo what I knew. I was pretty offended to hear him say'"that shit won't work". Because I used it.  but I listened, what he showed me was fine details to make my techniques better, little things I never thought of and many that were just so simple in theory, I really felt stupid. Ego aside, this guy is real, I wish i met him in my younger years. I wish he was one of the instructors in my department, I sincerely think he could have saved many lives. I feel very fortunate to have this opportunity to train under Sensei Anthony, a hard , sometimes rude guy on the outside but a good heart on the inside. This is a guy that truly cares about his students, we are family. I would have never met him if i didn't ask what that brown stuff was in the jug, only guy I ever met that drinks a big jug of coffee working out.

 

Sensei,

   I"m sorry I didnt' write or call for so many years,  I understand now ,  it was out of fear,  as you always said , our whole lives revolve around avoiding fear and pain and satisfiying ego..   that said ,  I just wanted to contact you on this memorial day to give you thanks.  When we parted ways, I felt bad, really bad,  like the biggest loser who ever lived,  everything you said was so true but i couldn't see it in my youth.  I wanted you to know, that even though I left training, I never forgot your lessons.   I respected you so much it scared me.  That's why I ran away.  I felt like a coward but that shaped me life.  I remembered our late night talks about how other students had left on bad terms, but you said they contacted you years later thanking you for lessons.....  I guess i didn't understand it ,  i was only a kid when I trained with you and still had so much of life to experience.   The shame i left with, the feeling of weakness,   it drove me,  it drove me to never fail again and to never be weak again,  never to let knowledge to unlearned and never to quit no matter how I felt about myself.   I wanted you to know on this day as everyone thanks military personnel ,   that I am thanking you,   the greatest warrior I have ever known or ever will know.   Everything you said happened, from making a family to a career in the military,   I can't thank you enough,  accept to say  ,  thank you for your service...  your service to me, and all your students.   "samurai"   to serve,   you have served in the most humble manner showing the greatest strength.  All my training in the military has just been "supplemental" to my time with you. 

I have such esteem ,  so much admiration for my superiors,   but I never had the same as I had for you and now that I understand your lessons,  "have" for you and always will have for my teacher,  my friend, my sensei,    

     I have had men under my command and finally know the feeling you must have had for us.   I cared for them so much,  felt so responsible for them,  but out of that feeling,  I had to be firm, do things that were unpleasant,  as you did with us. 

I"m so sorry I didn't see it back then,  I'm sorry I waited so long to contact you.

   You have made my life a success,  when I thought you threw me away,  you were just teaching me.   Your example of discipline thru your life,   always cleaning something,  always working ,  always at the gym ,  training martial arts,   I thought you were just over compulsive,  but now I see you were  and always be the greatest warrior I'll ever know

Your faithfull student and friend  {NAME OMITTED FOR SECURITY REASONS}



Just wanted to take a minute and thank you for the great classes.  Me and my family feel so much better for training.  The things you went over really showed us the years of tae kwon do we did as a family were nothing more than a hobby.  We really don't look at our blackbelts the same any more.  We enjoyed our time there, but after a few minutes with you, it's easy to see the dojang training really isn't going to work.  Which brings me to the point of my letter.  Our teen daughter was our with her friend.  She's much taller than last year when you trained us, but still skinny and looks like she needs a good meal :}

Her and her friends were at a party, and some drunk guys started to get '' a little too friendly".    One of her friend is also a tkd black belt from out old school.  As things went too far,  the girls tried to leave and the drunk boys stopped the,  blocked their way, and then physically tried to get them.   Her black belt friend told them she was a black belt and got into her fighting stance.  The other girls just stood there,  like you said,  no one really wants to get involved even they are your "friends".   One of the boys made fun of her,  asked what she could do,  then he went to shove her,   my daughter said she just stood there,   never even tried a technique from our old class,  the boy shoved her hard and knocked her back.   My daughter said she was really surprised as we had all worked on these types of attacks every class at the old school.  then he went back up to her and grabbed her arms.  As I understand it,  she just couldn't break free.  Like you told us, and showed us,  the easy compliant attacks in the dojang just aren't real and don't prepare you for the real thing.  My daughter stepped in ,  no one else would.  When she told him to let her friend go,  he asked what she would do if he didn't. 

After a few words were exchanged,  he let her friend go and tried to grab her.  She said she took the stance you showed us,  didn't even think about it,  as he put his hands on her,   she did the joint lock  and that sweeping hip throw.     She put the boy on his butt,  everyone laughed at him,   but wait.   He got up and tried to hit her,   that's when she said her block came out of no where and she hit him in that spot you showed us,   kid just dropped.   All his friends laughed at him just laying there she said.

I'm always so proud of my kids for not drinking or doing drugs,  and now she sees that if she had been drunk too,   bad things would have happened.

We are forever grateful to you,  had not come to you for that seminar,  and then stayed for training,  I think our baby would have been raped.  and that we couldn't live with.   THANK YOU ,     THANK YOU FOR KEEPING OUR BABY SAFE AND TEACHING US.

I wish more people would open their eyes to see the stuff you do for belts is not what will save you when it's real.  

with sincere gratitude,  the Liemens






Sensei, 

Just wanted to say thanks for the best training of my life.

I thought my training was pretty good, that was until I met you.  Being in law enforcement, I come face to face with people you don't find in dojos.  Like I told you ,  I've been tossed around a few times,  you never know what to expect. 
Even the small ones have incredible strength when they are hyped on narcotics.

Since I left training, I have used your techniques successfully.  Many times, when I was waiting for backup and had multiple threats to deal with, your joint locks and tactics served me well.   Just wanted to tell you about a quick episode.  Couple nights ago,  I'm going to a call, weapons involved.  Without getting into too much, several officers were dealing with what was quickly becoming a mob, they were trying to get someone cuffed and he broke loose,  cracked up and strong.  5 of them were holding back people getting involved in what they shouldn't be, and still can't get this guy hooked.   I employed your tactics and technique we went over for endless hrs.   It worked .   it worked great.  We were able to get the guy out of there and prevent what looked like a bad situation brewing.

     I will be contacting you to continue  training.  Your methods are not common ones for sure.  They draw on the obvious that no one seems to see.  Your real life experience makes your training something more than even the training I am given.  The stuff they teach in the class rooms,  the belts, trophies, ~  that doesn't keep us alive,  but your training does. 

    feel free to use this letter of gratitude,  just leave my personal info off,  dep. regs.   thanks Matt

Sensei Antony,
         I am forever grateful to my fire brother for the referral.  I have been an instructor at the academy for years, as well as an Airborne ranger in Vietnam.  This letter is meant to serve as a testimonial to anyone interested in very real training from a very real teacher,  this training is not for everyone,  Just like being a Ranger is not for everyone, but it you have what it takes,  Sensei Antony can get you there.

As a retired fire officer, one of the roles that is inherent with the position is to teach the fundamentals of firefighting. Instruction covers all aspects of the profession. Instruction is the first step in any "profession" or "art". It is the core of the learning process. A student is instructed on the mechanics of the profession. An officer instructs the new recruit. But, a good firefighter becomes a great firefighter if he is guided by a "teacher". The teacher goes past the basics. The teacher uses his combined years of knowledge and real life experiences and applies this to the student that wants to excel in the service. Each student learns differently. The "real" teacher knows that patience and wisdom is required to impart this new knowledge to a student in a way that will succeed. Each student learns individually and differently. The real teacher finds the correct way to guide the student. Being a "real" teacher is not easy, but the reward is seeing a student grow. The growth is not measured by time, but by eventually seeing the student attain his goals or actually mature into a teacher himself.
                           All this brings me to the real reason for writing. From my experience, Sensei Antony, I believe you to be a "real" teacher. From our very first encounters in the gym, you understood my limitations due to genetic physical restrictions and past surgeries. You approached my problems with no reservations and have be able to provide practical and useful training. You have studied my strong and weak points, understood the type of training that works my style of self defense, and have consistently moved me in the right direction to succeed.  That is what a teacher accomplishes and why an instructor fails. An instructor only succeeds with the mechanics. He is the "beginning". The "teacher" is the "beginning" and the "end".  I feel secure in calling you a "teacher".
                           Thank-you for all that you have given for me to learn. Because of my position in life, I learn in a way that my be hard to understand. After I see and experience, I apply the knowledge in a way that will fit my "rules of living" and interaction with others. It's not your way, but a personal standard that guides my life. It's all about choosing a path based on what is presented. I measure my disciplines and actions on a scale.  A low level threat is met accordingly. It requires no thought at the time if the principles and disciplines are learned. The high level threat is also met accordingly and instinctively for the same reasons. You are teaching me more "ways" to deal with both threats. My "instinctive" arsenal is growing larger thanks to you!
                            It's my hope that a young student will cross your path. He would be most fortunate to learn from you and you would earn what all true teachers want ... a student that wants to become the teacher.

Your friend and student
LT.
 
 





 

Sensei Antony,
                           I've read with interest the comments about instructing and/or teaching. As a retired fire officer, one of the roles that is inherent with the position is to teach the fundamentals of firefighting. Instruction covers all aspects of the profession. Instruction is the first step in any "profession" or "art". It is the core of the learning process. A student is instructed on the mechanics of the profession. An officer instructs the new recruit. But, a good firefighter becomes a great firefighter if he is guided by a "teacher". The teacher goes past the basics. The teacher uses his combined years of knowledge and real life experiences and applies this to the student that wants to excel in the service. Each student learns differently. The "real" teacher knows that patience and wisdom is required to impart this new knowledge to a student in a way that will succeed. Each student learns individually and differently. The real teacher finds the correct way to guide the student. Being a "real" teacher is not easy, but the reward is seeing a student grow. The growth is not measured by time, but by eventually seeing the student attain his goals or actually mature into a teacher himself.
                           All this brings me to the real reason for writing. From my experience, Antony, I believe you to be a "real" teacher. From our very first encounters in the gym, you understood my limitations due to genetic physical restrictions and past surgeries. You approached my problems with no reservations and have be able to provide practical and useful training. You have studied my strong and weak points, understood the type of training that works my style of self defense, and have consistently moved me in the right direction to succeed.  That is what a teacher accomplishes and why an instructor fails. An instructor only succeeds with the mechanics. He is the "beginning". The "teacher" is the "beginning" and the "end".  I feel secure in calling you a "teacher".
                           Thank-you for all that you have given for me to learn. Because of my position in life, I learn in a way that my be hard to understand. After I see and experience, I apply the knowledge in a way that will fit my "rules of living" and interaction with others. It's not your way, but a personal standard that guides my life. It's all about choosing a path based on what is presented. I measure my disciplines and actions on a scale.  A low level threat is met accordingly. It requires no thought at the time if the principles and disciplines are learned. The high level threat is also met accordingly and instinctively for the same reasons. You are teaching me more "ways" to deal with both threats. My "instinctive" arsenal is growing larger thanks to you!
                            It's my hope that a young student will cross your path. He would be most fortunate to learn from you and you would earn what all true teachers want ... a student that wants to become the teacher.
 
 
Mel 





    This letter is meant to serve as a testimony of the exceptional skill and knowledge of Sensei Antony as well as a letter of recommendation for any position related to martial arts, self defense, supplemental training for law enforcement, executive protection, or any position pertaining to the security industry. 

     I have a long martial arts history including Aikido, Jiu Jitsu, Brazillian Ju Jitsu, and weapons defense.  I have attended seminars with such famous names as the Gracies and many other martial artists. I am currently employed at the Manatee Sheriff’s Office as a Corrections deputy in the jail. I am F.D.L.E certified as a defensive tactics instructor, advanced ground fighting instructor, expandable baton instructor, CMS first aid for criminal justice instructor, CPR/first aid instructor for the Red Cross and American Heart Assoc.  In an interest to perform my duties more efficiently and keep my fellow officers safe, I have attended many seminars with many instructors seeking any bit of knowledge that may mean the difference between life and death.  I have always found flaws in their techniques when applying them in the real world.  The moves work great in the class room but as any Law Enforcement Officer will tell you, the real world is full of surprises.  You never know what you will be confronted with, the strength of your assailant, or the lethality of the situation.  Therefore I have been seeking out an instructor who could impart methods of controlling the assailant in a manner that is not only affective but within the scope of our general orders.  I have found that with Sensei Antony.  His style, concepts, and theories are based on realistic scenarios and counter offensives which enable Law Enforcement/Correctional personnel to get their job done and avoid any excessive force.  This is a great consideration in the present climate of civil liability for our line of work. He is able to teach exactly what the student needs.  Many instructors have a set line of moves that are supposed to work for everyone.  Sensei Antony is very aware that not everything works for everyone and is quick to point that out.  He tailors each technique to the individual.  All of his techniques comply with the force matrix, meeting the subjects resistance without getting into an excessive force situation.  Another unique aspect of his training is that the methods are field tested.  Many instructors have never used what they teach nor have they actively researched the validity of their techniques from those who would use them.  Sensei Antony is continually processing feedback from students such as myself who are in the position to accurately rate the effectiveness of the methods. 

     I have used many of these techniques working in the jail setting where every second counts and controlling the subject or inmate without being open to an excessive force charge is an issue.  His methods fit the bill enabling me to protect myself and my fellow officers on numerous occasions. It is for these reasons and many more that I feel I have finally found a style, a teacher, and a friend who can give me the knowledge I need to do my job, protect others, and stay within the scope of the law. 

     I would highly recommend Sensei Antony for Law Enforcement, security, or anyone looking for an efficient and real means of protecting themselves with less than lethal methods. 

 Sincerely

 Deputy Young, Eric   

Manatee County Sheriff’s Office – Corrections



I have always been interested in martial arts.  I never studied any one particular art but did participate in self defense courses.  I am a small women of 5 foot nothing 112 lbs.  These classes never afforded me a means of self defense that I felt I could depend on.  A few years ago my daughter was very excited about taking a martial arts class from a teacher at her school.  Before she could start I had to meet the teacher and see what they were doing.  I ended up taking the class with my daughter to bond with her.  I soon found myself emersed in a world of strange customs and new aches in my body.  I was constantly bruised.  Now a few years later my daughter has turned attention to boys and school activities but I'm still training.  I am amazed at what I can do now.  I never thought I would be able to throw someone who was much bigger and stonger than me.  I have gotten in the best shape of my life, and I was in pretty good shape before.  Remarkably, I don't bruise to easily anymore.  What I originally signed up for went away.  My daughter is growing up.  The self defense I stood for in the first year, now is not the reason I stay in class.  I am confident that I can defend myself and my daughter.  I am in great shape.  But the main reason I stay in class is the people who are there.  Our Sensei is kind and caring.  In the beginning many of us took his kind ways for granted until we started to visit other schools and see what was out there.  While we were in a commercial setting we saw many of the so called martial artists sporting thier certificates and medals, but when they hit the mat they were not able to control our whitebelts.  We are a family.  I understand what Sensei meant when I had my first class.  He said, "we train by the old codes. The closest friends you will have and the most trusted people you know will be your brothers and sisters in the school.  This is why we are so closed off. I don't want any of you getting hurt because someone wants to show off". 
Sincerely
Vicky Robinson Edit Text

Dear Sensei.  Thank you so much for your training in bail bonds recovery.  When we first started out, we really enjoyed the brawls and the excitement.  However, after a few close calls and bruises, we were fortunate enough to find you.  With your techniques, we have had much greater success taking subjects into custody without incident.  As you said, it doesn't matter how well you fight, it's how you come to the fight and where you position your team that avoids the fight.  I can honestly say that your training has not only saved us from severe injuries and possibly getting killed, but your techniques have saved us from civil litigation.  Never have we met anyone who focused so heavily on the law and how it would look in court.  We are now like group of musicians who just jam together.  We don't need notes to play- we don't have to yell commands at each other any more.  Your training methods do take a lot of practice but they are well worth the time and energy.  Due to our methods we are receiving more calls for our services.  We have secured a reputation for not only getting the job done right, but for getting it done safely and without incident.  Many times we are in situations where we would have pulled our sidearms and possibly had to use lethal force.  Your training has allowed us to cut down on those incidents and if they do come up, we are prepared and rarely do we need to exersise lethal force. 
Thanks
BoutnyHunter5
















Hi Sensei Anthony,

I’m writing you to thank you for the training you gave me.  I haven't wrote in a while because I was deployed soon after we trained.   I remember when I first saw you at the Y and we talked about fighting and you told me philosophy.  I must admit that I really didn’t think you had the skill and techniques you did when we first met.  No offense.  But like you said, you have to adapt to what  you are and what you can do.   Thru boot camp I was always at the lead with DT.  When we got to our shooting range and the instructors told us how to breathe letting out some air then squeezing the trigger I figured they were write since they were the instructors.  After a few days, I don’t know why, I started thinking about what you said with breathing.  I started breathing in my stomach and really didn’t think about it.  I was hitting everything.  My DI asked where I learned to shoot and what my training was, and I told him I just shot a few times in my life.  He said I was either lying or just a natural.   The big compliment to your training came with our ground work and hand to hand.  My unit had some really big guys in it.  Even though they could lift more and run faster, I still beat the shit out of them on the field.   The ground fighting was no where near what you showed me.  It was a joke like you said.  Just the basics for a few hrs so everyone could pass.  We didn’t really train too much for any thing but shooting the enemy.  My DI “s were constantly asking where I got my training.   I finally told them I trained with you at the Y.   like you said they made fun of the martial arts but they still asked me about my moves. 

Well long story short, the few months I spent with you was more useful than my military training.  When we got over there, we had to clear buildings and move quickly thru the streets.  One day we were riding down a road and took some fire.  Our gunner let lose with spray to try to hit what we couldn’t’ see.  Our hummer got shot out and we had to ditch it.  This was one of my first fire fights.  After that day I was scared and remembered what you told me about combat.  I did have some dreams but I didn’t see anyone actually killed up close….. YET!    I figured I was being told something.  After basic seeing what you said was right and being able to throw those big guys around and then getting to the “battlefield” as you said, I kept being reminded of a lot of things you told me.  I started to get scared and I thought a lot about what you told me about the mental side of combat.  I don’t remember everything but it was like a sign.  Everywhere I looked I saw something that reminded me of something you told me or showed me.  Well a couple of weeks go by and we were getting shot at by kids and rocks thrown at us and never knowing what was around the next corner.  We had some clearing training and now it was time to go in.  the first building we cleared was hit by a rocket It looked like.  Holes everywhere that someone could hide in and you don’t know what it looks like inside until you are in.  a few times we found someone in a room … they wouldn’t come out so we thru a charge in.  nothing like the movies.  I was going into a building with my unit.  We really didn’t think anyone was in there. We moved down a hall.  I remembered how you told me not to lean on the walls.  We cleared a few rooms and then out of no where we took some fire from our front.  Everyone scattered.  I ran into the first room I could.  This was like an office building not really a home.  I didn’t know where the fire came from or where everyone ran to.  I was yelling to my team and asking what to do.  No answere.   We couldn’t hear anything.  It seems fast but like I was there forever.  I heard shots hitting just outside the doorway.  Then I heard some one yelling clear , clear and it was in American.  I knew they neutralized who ever was shooting.  It just seemed to stop … I never looked behind me.  Yeah I know you told me to always look at the 4 corners and up.  I got narrow minded.  I was just about to leave and I felt someone pulling my back by the straps of my gear.  Before I could react I had another one in front of me holding my 16.  I didn’t hear anything and all I could think of was what they taught us.  I held my weapon tight with both hands and tried to push the muzzle up and yank it back but he wouldn’t let go and now I was starting to be choked from behind.  I don’t know why or how I did it but I locked my 16 between my bi’s and forearm and under my arm.  I got my hands free and grabbed the enemy by the shirt and managed to get my kbar.  I tried to stab him a few times.  He just wouldn’t let go.   Somehow I cut him across his bi’s like you showed me.  It was weird.  It just came out.  As soon as I cut him he pulled his arms close and let go.  I kicked him back and while being choked I opened up on him.  I don’t know how I got the one in back of me off.  I don’t really remember accept when I turned he was there in front of me looking like “awe shit”  and I took that hesitation and put 3 in his chest.  My team came and dragged me out.   I still have my kbar in my hand and locked onto my 16.  later that day I was asked about my attack.  I reported with pride what I remembered.  I was asked over and over how I came up with those moves every time I told the story.  All I had to say was it just came out of me. 

 

I know that the training I got in basic would never have saved my life that day.  We never covered anything like that.  I didn’t have the training that I needed.  After that day I thought a lot about all the things I could remember that you told me.  I forgot a lot of them.  I wish I had payed attention more.  I talked to a sort of counselor.  He asked how I felt about killing those 2 and if I felt guilty or had dreams.   I told him I did have dreams but I felt pride in what I did. He tried to play it off like was really screwed up and needed his advice.  He told me how lucky I was that I had my unit there. I told him I was alone, they came in after it was over.  He told me it was good that I used my training.  I told him that the military training would have gotten me killed and that it was what I learned from you that kept me alive. As we talked something you told me came up.  I told him I was a soldier and didn’t really feel anything.  I didn’t kill anyone in my mind.  I just had 2 targets that I had to move thru.  I don’t look at it as killing them.  I just reacted to what they did.  He looked at me and said “where did you get that”     I told him a little about my time with you.  He asked how long we had been friends.  I told him I only knew you for a few months.  So I’m kinda a hero in my circle now.  I hope I don’t ever have to go thru this again.  My attitude about life has changed like you said it would if I ever took a life.  I never really thanked you when we were at the Y.  I know you tried to tell me about your code of training and explain how it would be to kill someone.  When I last saw you that day I just saw you as a guy who looked mean and could hit hard, I mean some of those energy shots you gave me felt like truck running me over.  I saw you just some guy I started to work out with.  You were funny always making fun of your stomach and poking at the other members.  That was a different me.  I don’t know how exactly to say it but I see you as so much more now.  What you told me was not much of a technique was so much more than what the military gave me.  Now that I have something to compare it to, I realize just how much you know, and wonder how much more you know that I will probably never find out about.  I know that I trained with a real soldier.  Not one in a uniform or with a rank, but with you.  I now know what you were trying to tell me about how battle changes someone forever and makes close bonds.  It was like some force brought us together to save my life.    I know that if it weren’t for you and how you trained me, I would be dead right now.  I don’t know what else to say accept thankyou.  Thankyou for giving me my life back when it was being taken and for letting me go home to my family.  I’ll contact you soon.   I didn’t remember your phone number but how could I ever forget your email        Merry Christmass

 

Your friend

Robert A. Howe




Dear Sensei Anthony,
    This past weekend I had a very serious encounter that could have turned very ugly.  On Saturday night I went to a party with two of my friends.  It wasn't a terrible neighborhood but there were some sketchy individuals there but we knew most of them and were cool with everyone so we figured it was fine.
    After being there for an hour or two, friend one and I left to go pick up a girl, leaving friend two at the party by himself.  As friend one and I were driving back to the party after picking up the skank, we both started receiving phone calls saying that friend two had just been jumped by three guys.  After they kicked my friend's ass they "tastefully" tasered him instead of stabbing him like the one pussy wanted to do. 
    Once we heard the news we knew we had to go back to pick up our friend.  Immediately friend one wanted to go in swinging.  He's a little guy who couldn't do much so he knew he had to recruit me since im much stronger and im the only one who could actually do any damage.  It was at this point where I needed to decide what to do and is also the reason for this letter.
    Most morons reaction would be screw it lets go and kick some ass, but this is where I differed.  Although I am not a student of yours we have become close as you have gone out of your way to talk to what to most would consider just some kid at the gym.  Over the past year you have shared with me many lessons and wise tidbits about everything from fighting and guns to very personal stories to help me learn from your experiences so I could be a better person. 
    Had it not have been for these conversations I would have had a much different result from Saturday night.  What you taught me about always sizing up a situation and having a premeditated plan going into a hot spot made a world of difference.  Had you not taught me to think of what im doing, what the target is doing, the surroundings, and the potential repercussions I would have just stormed the party ready to fight.  If I would have done that I would have gotten my ass destroyed.  It would have been three against me and they had a stun gun as well as a knife and had nothing to lose and would have used the weapons on me without hesitation.  Instead I was peaceful but also went in ready with a plan in case shit hit the fan but the assholes actually apologized to me for what they did and the problem was solved without any bloodshed, in other words I won the fight without throwing a punch.
    Your lessons and our conversations have really impacted me in a positive and potentially life altering way.  I could have easily ended my Saturday night in the hospital or even dead if you hadn't gone out of your way to help a young kid who prior to meeting you was ignorant of the world.  I just really want to thank you for all of the wisdom you have given me and I really am grateful of it and appreciate it.  Your students are a lucky select few that get to truly learn from you and see how to live their lifes, just look at what I have gained and learned from you and im not even one of your students.  Anyways, I just want to say thanks again and I hope one day I can pass one your lessons to another kid so I can impact them like you have to me.
                                                                                             

Your Friend,
                                                                                                      Bryan

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